MARY MAGDALENE ~ Helping a Young Man Transition Into Adulthood ~ Mercedes Kirkel @ Into The Heart


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Helping a Young Man Transition Into Adulthood

July 2, 2014 | Author Mercedes Kirkel

Received by Mercedes Kirkel
On May 13, 2014

Question: I have a son who is almost twenty years old. He’s becoming a man and right now there’s a bit of a separation in what he’s allowing me to do as his mother, and how close he’s allowing himself to be with me and to share with me. I would like to find out what I can do within myself to open a space that can bring more harmony, and more of an equality-based relationship as adults–instead of him feeling like I look at him as just a child, so we can have a better relationship.

Mary Magdalene: This is such an important transition that you are talking about. Just your awareness of it alone is a great blessing—to your son, especially, but also to you. I acknowledge you and honor you for this awareness that you are bringing.

This is such a critical moment in a young man’s life. He is separating from his childhood relationship to his mother. This will affect his future relationships with women as lovers and partners. So it is a very, very important transition, where he is allowed to sail on his own ship as a man. It is a transition that a man truly needs to make on his own. It is a rite of passage. It is wonderful if he has other men in his life who, first, can be role models for him and, second, who he can turn to if he needs support. Does he have this in his life?

Questioner: No, he doesn’t.

Mary Magdalene: This makes it more challenging.

What would be optimal at this point would be if there was a circle of men. It would be most optimal if they were spiritually aware, awake men who could take over guiding your son at this point, to the degree that he needs it, and could relieve you of feeling any remaining responsibility for guiding him into his autonomy as an adult. But if that is not the case, then what may be the best is to be very open with him in your communication. Explain to him your position. Explain that you feel a very important and wonderful transition is underway into him becoming an adult and an independent man, and that this will involve a change in your relationship with him. Explain that you’re celebrating this.

It would be very wonderful if you could find one or more ways to celebrate this, so that you actually made it into an outer transition, a rite of passage, in some form or other. It could be something as simple as a gift that you give or something more elaborate. If he’s open to some kind of ceremony, that would be wonderful, but he may not be open to that. It could be something like a trip that you take together. Make it something outer, where you actually mark this transition. That would be very wonderful.

Be open with him that you would like to transition into a new kind of relationship with him. Describe the relationship that you would like to have with him and also be honest about any reservations that you have. For example, tell him if there are some areas where you feel that he still needs further guidance, in a parental kind of role, and affirm that you want him to have that guidance. Consider together with him what would be the best way for him to receive that support that would satisfy both of you—satisfying his needs for autonomy, freedom, and independence and also satisfying your needs for feeling in integrity as his parent that you are providing the support that he needs for his highest good (to the best of your ability). That support does not necessarily have to come from you, but you need to see to it that it is provided in some form or other.

Does it feel like that would be a process that would work between you and your son?

Questioner: Yes. I just have to do it in a gentle way because he has resistance right now to me offering any kind of guidance. We’re doing better right now and we are taking a trip to a place where he’s more considered an adult. So I think that’s positive. Just talking to him as you’ve described, I can integrate that into our conversation.

Mary Magdalene: Yes. First of all celebrate, always celebrate. Acknowledge ways that you see him being responsible, capable, competent, making choices that you are so happy about. To really acknowledge those is very important, because part of his reactivity is his own insecurity. It may not appear that way when you’re on the receiving end in the moment, but he’s actually really needing support and reassurance, and partly giving that to himself in a kind of over-reactive way by taking the stance that he doesn’t need any help. So definitely acknowledge him.

Then acknowledge your needs, which are places that you still feel concerned, or nervous, or whatever. You need reassurance and you’re asking for his help to give you reassurance. Then give ideas of how you could get that reassurance. For example, you might say, “One way is if we talk about things together and you told me how you were going to handle it, and asked me if I felt comfortable with that—not because I’m going to tell you how to do it but because it will really help me. I need to know that you’re taking everything into account that I can see, and if you’re not that we can talk about it.” So you’re phrasing it in a way that you’re asking for his help to go through this transition, which is for both of you. He’s transitioning into being an autonomous, independent male. And you’re transitioning into letting go of the role of overseeing him and being able to trust and release him into the world as his own being. So you’re asking for his help in your transition that you’re making. This is what would be really valuable. Does that make sense?

Questioner: Yes. And he’s very sensitive so he would consider that as something that was important. So that’s a good way to do it. Thank you.

Mary Magdalene: Yes. And then you can suggest that you want to relate more as equals. You want to be able to put both your ideas on the table and come up with solutions that handle all the different aspects that are involved for both of you. So you’re not saying that you want to be in charge, but you’re not saying to him, “I bless you to do whatever you want and forget about me.” You’re suggesting, “Let’s create a new dynamic during this transition where we’re co-creating. That’s part of the transition toward you moving into creating your own life and me feeling totally at peace with that, so that I feel ready to let go and release you to that.” How does that sound?

Questioner: Good. That makes sense. I can do that.

Mary Magdalene: Wonderful. This will help him as he inevitably moves into being an autonomous, independent man, and then starts to open into relating to women from that position. This will create a trust for him in his future relationships with women, where he will start to learn how to co-create with a partner, rather than being distrustful and it being a potentially conflictual dynamic. This is what all people need as they move into adulthood and what so many didn’t receive. For men in particular, this is their challenge because many felt like they had to push away from their mother and escape in some ways. When they come to relating to a partner, to a woman, they’re still carrying that old imprint and they have trouble opening up to intimacy, trust, and co-creativity with a woman as an adult. So this will help him tremendously in his future relationships.

Questioner: Thank you.

Mary Magdalene: Thank you for your caring and your consciousness as you move through this transition with your son.

Questioner: I hope that I can do the best, from a different place than I would have a few years ago.

Mary Magdalene: Yes. Express that to your son, just in those kinds of ways. He will feel your heart.

Questioner: OK.

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Saint Germain ~ The current unfoldings : Meline Lafont @ Awaken Spirit from Within

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Saint Germain ~ The current unfoldings

July 3, 2014

Conveyed through Méline Portia Lafont


Greetings, I AM Saint Germain

It is with heartfelt sincerity that I compliment Humanity for being such brave hearted souls and kindred spirits through this manifestation of the new world. The new world is in its full remake program where a recalibration is the festivity of that event. There are various ways, offers and pathways given to you all to climb the famous and gigantic tree of life. Be careful to not fall off the branches that hold you together during your climb. Those branches function as a rooted reality that holds you just as much in your vibration and reality as you allow yourself to be in.

The more you are out of balance or the more you are outgrowing this reality, the more the branch will become unstable to sustain you ~ meaning the branch is functioning as your vibrational reality. Time to move further to another branch is our advice or just clear some patterns of your thoughts to sustain that reality of which you are made.

The choice is always up to your own heart and soul as to where you wish to thrive towards, so take a few moments of your time every day to truly make that choice by heart so as to continue your journey and life path in the most resonant vibration of your being.

It has been quite a venture so far, hasn’t it my friends? Well, hasn’t this been foretold by myself and others as well?! Hmm?! It is always with true joy and honor to emit that particular energy to you all as a co-creation with the collective on this planet Gaia. Therefore we are all true Masters that embody that Christed consciousness and function as the Gatekeepers and teachers of this world and reality. We do not function as teachers in the mindset of being more than and above the other, it is with an understanding of each and everyone’s Divinity that we bring the teachings of our own resonance and vibrational field of Cosmic consciousness in order to contribute in one’s Divinely awakened path.

It is also your function in this lifetime, so lead by example would be the teaching of the day here, as you too will come to that understanding. Well my friends, what a time it is to truly be a part of that Divine Cosmic consciousness, isn’t it? Well I must tell you that more of that is awaiting you in the wings. There is more, you ask? Yes certainly there is way more, for it is only the true beginning, my friends, of a grand reawakening force on your planes of human consciousness. How must we tell you and show you how far you truly have evolved in a short time frame, if some still tend to seek the Divinity through proof without themselves? Hmm?! There is none, I say to you as you are the God living proof of Ascension itself.

What you are going through and all are going through, is the course of Ascension on an Earthly plane that is in the vibration of duality and polarity. Have we not learned through the teachings of Einstein that when you take away one side of the polarity in an instant, the field would be so out of control in its gravity that much damage can be made? It is the same for the Earth you know. We cannot just erase the dark in a split second without thinking about the entire consciousness that still lingers in darkness as well as in light due to the duality/polarity. It demands time, processes and consciousness awakening to get to that most natural point of dissolving the old, which is the dark in this case. Remember too that everything is pure consciousness and is essentially a part of pure Divinity, even the dark my friends.

Now what can I tell you more about the upcoming time in this time and space continuum? Well, I would say that it is necessary for you all to go in the inner planes of the heart and to keep on being there until you have mastered the grand planes of disillusion because let me be clear here, there is a Master plan behind all of this that is coming into fruition as we speak. This year is about great Divine potential as to creations and manifestations. The old is clearly being disassembled as truths are coming out on every plane, in every reality as well as in the collective reality of your world.

Souls such as governments, politicians and world leaders are now facing the truths of their own assembled parts which have been created into form onto this Earth. This truth shall not work for those anymore as they are being called by their own Divine God Self to make peace with their own true heart and Divinity. The more that Love is being emanated onto this plane, the more souls are being set free of their roles of polarity and dark, so forgiveness and victim roles are most present these days as it shows you all to choose the path of Divine Love at all times.

There is a lot of movement in the astral planes these days as many souls are transcending and trespassing those 4th dimensional planes to be rebirthed in the Christed 5th Dimensional plane of Cosmic wisdom. Shifts within shifts within shifts are taking place within all of you and within the Earthly planes as well, all being a part of the global transformation into Christed energies. Now let us be honest here; this movement brings forth a lot of discomfort for you all in these planes on many levels and for many reasons as well. Let us speak of those for a brief moment.

It is the understanding and the knowing of your God Divinity that shall assist you during this phase of transcendence, for it is all about transcending the old here and re-attaching you to the Christed planes through a rebirth or reawakening. The knowing and acceptance of that process and event is your key and your way out of the discomfort and issues as you allow this to be in your plane of reality, for fighting against this and willing to control it does not serve you at all. It is about allowance and trust that you are a God giving soul, a God kindred being that stands ready and aligned with the Cosmic Source of creation to assist every single being that is passing through the ‘wringer’ of rebirth.

Give your physical vehicle the rest it demands for it is truly important to keep your vehicle enlightened and balanced during this to enable you to bring forth that Christed Cosmic consciousness of yours through the breath of creation. Waves of energies are hitting your daily planes and lives as we speak and it does not tend to sit down for a while as you have entered the gateways to Heaven and as you pass through that ‘wringer’ of rebirth ~ again with your physical expression this time ~ All that is not of your Cosmic Christed Self is being sucked away to be vaporized into the flames of transcendence and illumination. It is that process that makes you all feel so tired and exhausted causing you all to doubt again at times.

Well, there is no time to have doubts on your plate, my dear friends, throw them away now and handle that which is already on your plate, that should be sufficient, no need to take on more or demanding more of yourself. Work through this with that which you are best in and allow. Give yourself the time and the rest you need but keep your eye on the goal, all is purely based on intention in the first place during this Ascension process. The intention to move to a new birthed plane in this Golden age! And so it is my friends!

I AM that I AM

Saint Germain

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