Adama~ ♥ For everyone desiring to move into a fifth dimensional vibration, you need to be willing to let go of all your third dimensional cultural traditions and habits that will not support you in the dimension you are seeking. In our culture, we greet each other with a gesture of friendship by bringing the palms of our hands together and touching the area of our heart chakra, and through the eyes, connecting with that person heart to heart by a very gentle bowing of the head and a smile. We do not always need to say anything aloud; the words can be as simple as a telepathic message such as, “May peace be with you,” or something similar. The love and acceptance are sent to each other and received through the heart.
This is all that is needed to demonstrate our love and honoring of the other person(s) we meet. We consider it a great honor to be allowed to touch someone in our dimension other than family members, and we do not do this very often. It is done only when there is a special reason to do so, and ‘always’ with permission. This is the way it is done in our dimension and in most galactic civilizations as well. We have no need to touch each other like you do in your dimension.
This is also what you need to embrace if you wish to move into higher vibration. We are not trying to change your cultures or traditions. We are only trying to make you aware that there is a higher way, and you are free to embrace it or not. We are asking all of you, from now on, to honor those who no longer want to engage in those practices in order to maintain their spiritual vibration and energy at a level that is comfortable for them.
It is your neediness and your lack of self-love that drive you to always want to make this exchange of each other’s energies. It has nothing to do with love; it has simply become a cultural habit. There are those who, consciously or unconsciously, go from one person to another for hugs and kisses. In fact, they often have a serious need for the energy of others, as they are not generating their own from within the Self. To compensate for their own lack, they are sucking energies from all those they touch. They do this in the name of love, and we say to you it has nothing to do with love. It is the ego that is needy for some affection because often, it has very little self-love.
When you hug someone, there is a mixing of energies from the heart chakra of both parties. It is not always wise to allow the exchange of these energies, especially with people you do not know very well. Very often this is how “entities” that you call “hitchhikers” from lower realms can be transmitted. This happens very frequently, my friends. We constantly see people in great distress after a gathering, when they have allowed many people to get close to their heart chakra, and energies that are not desirable to them have jumped over into their auric field.
Learn to guard and protect the integrity of your own energy. This is vital to build your immortality. You are all responsible for managing your energy field in a mature way.
These people usually do not know what happened to them, and often, they go on living for years with the distress and discomfort of the hitchhiker they picked up a long time ago. I say to you that all of you who want to move into a fifth dimensional frequency can no longer afford to engage lightly in those kinds of exchanges. We do not like to talk about this subject in this book, but we feel it is necessary for you in your dimension to become fully aware of how your energies can be lost or misused. In our dimension, that kind of situation would not manifest, but we always remain in full honoring of our energies and the energies of others. This is one factor that keeps our immortality intact.
Once you learn to give to yourself all the love that is inside you from the God Essence of your being, loving yourself until that love so overflows in your heart, you will no longer need to maintain these cultural practices. They are born out of a need, and we feel that you no longer need to express them this way. It is your choice.
It is not to say that there is something very wrong with these practices, but we say that this tradition is purely a third dimensional behavior that has served you well in the past; but in the new energy, it will not. If you want to move into a higher vibration, you need to start practicing the behaviors that are acceptable in the dimension you seek to enter into. For those wishing to stay in 3D vibration, it is your choice to continue to do the things that keep you attached to this dimension.
No matter how loving and well-meaning those exchanges are, one person gains in energy while another loses energy. It cannot be avoided unless you both have the same level of spiritual energy. You don’t always know this when you meet someone new or even someone you already know, do you?
It is time for you, Aurelia, to stand up for yourself and give this important teaching to the people you meet when you perceive they need to have this wisdom as part of their mastery. You are all masters in training at various levels, and if you wish to come into your full mastery, it is imperative that you start acting like masters now. If you want to graduate from this Earth curriculum you cannot continue to act in the old vibration.
( From Telos Book 3 by Aurelia) ♥